Cruising for Travelers Who Don’t Think They Like Cruises
So you swear you are not a “cruise person.” We get it. Images of seasick tourists in Hawaiian shirts, crowded buffet lines, and cheesy lounge singers might be dancing in your head. But before you rule cruising out entirely, consider this: cruising has changed dramatically over the past decade. Today’s cruise experiences vary widely in pace, style, and vibe. Many travelers who once said they would “never cruise” have now been back multiple times because they found the right cruise for them.
By the end of this post, you might just find yourself browsing itineraries with curiosity instead of skepticism. Let’s address common cruise concerns and explore the types of cruises that might surprise you.
Overcoming Common Cruise Concerns
“I Will Get Seasick on a Cruise”
It is true that being on a moving ship can lead to motion sickness for some people. However, modern cruise ships are engineering marvels designed to keep things as stable as possible. Most large vessels have advanced stabilizers that greatly reduce motion. For example, ocean ships like Royal Caribbean’s Icon of the Seas and Celebrity Edge use stabilization technology that helps keep movements smooth and steady.
If you are still nervous, here are some helpful tips:
- Choose a large ship or a river cruise: Big ocean vessels handle waves better, and river cruises such as those offered by Viking River Cruises or AmaWaterways glide on calm inland waterways with almost no motion at all.
- Prepare a little: Packing non-drowsy motion sickness medication or patches can make a big difference. Many doctors recommend taking the first dose before boarding.
- Pick your cabin wisely: Mid-ship cabins on lower decks tend to feel less movement. Many travelers find that spending time on deck watching the horizon also helps.
With modern ship design and a bit of planning, you are far more likely to enjoy the ocean breeze than feel unsettled.
“Cruise Ships Are Crowded Floating Cities”
You may have seen photos of packed pool decks and long buffet lines and figured that cruising is overwhelming. The reality is that layouts and guest experiences have evolved. Cruise lines now design ships with space and comfort in mind, and many offer areas that feel quiet and personal.
For example, Royal Caribbean’s Icon class ships spread guests across multiple neighborhoods, so even with many passengers onboard, it rarely feels crowded. You can find peaceful lounges, secluded deck spaces, and adults-only zones where the music and conversation are mellow.
Here is how cruise lines help create calm experiences:
- Adults-only retreats: Many ocean ships include adults-only pool areas and lounges where families with children are not allowed.
- Staggered activities: Cruise lines use apps and digital systems to schedule shows and dining so crowds are spread throughout the day.
- Small ship alternatives: If large ships still sound intimidating, an intimate cruise on a small vessel like those operated by Windstar Cruises or traditional yachts gives you plenty of space and a personal feel.
Cruise ships represent a wide range of sizes, and bigger does not automatically mean busier.
“I Will Be Bored Trapped on a Boat”
This is one of the most common misconceptions about cruising. In fact, boredom is surprisingly rare on modern ships because there is something for every type of traveler:
- If you like adventure, ships like Norwegian Prima have go kart tracks and rope courses.
- If you want relaxation, most ships offer spas, adults-only lounges, and quiet libraries.
- If you enjoy culture and entertainment, expect Broadway style shows, live music, cooking demonstrations, and more.
And then there are shore excursions. A typical cruise day might include snorkeling, guided walking tours, snacking your way through a local food market, or even kayaking near a glacier on an Alaska sailing.
At the same time, you are free to do nothing at all. On many ships you can book a spa treatment, enjoy a slow breakfast at your own pace, read a book by the pool, and watch the ocean go by.
“There Is No Real Adventure or Authentic Travel”
Some travelers dismiss cruises as overly touristy or scripted. However, cruising can be incredibly adventurous and culturally rich if you choose the right experience.
Expedition cruises offer true exploration. Lines such as Hurtigruten Expeditions, Lindblad Expeditions with National Geographic, and Quark Expeditions sail to remote destinations like Antarctica, Greenland, the Galápagos Islands, and the Arctic. On these trips you are exploring rugged landscapes with expert guides and small groups, and your days are filled with natural wonders rather than tourist traps.
Even on mainstream cruises, shore excursions can be immersive. In the Mediterranean you might join a local chef for a market tour and cooking class. In Alaska you can kayak among glacier icebergs. Many cruise tours include local experts, home-hosted meals, and active adventures like hiking, biking, or cultural site visits.
Cruise travel often introduces people to new places. According to industry research, a large percentage of cruise passengers return later for longer land-based visits to destinations they first explored on a cruise.
Find the Perfect Cruise for Your Travel Style
The truth is, there is a cruise for almost every traveler. If you start with what matters most to you - be it relaxation, adventure, culture, food, or social connection - there is a cruise style that matches your preferences. Here are some tailored suggestions:
Solo Travelers: If you think cruising is only for couples or families, think again. Solo cruising is growing rapidly. Lines such as Norwegian Cruise Line, Royal Caribbean, Virgin Voyages, and Celebrity Cruises offer single traveler cabins and social meetups that help you connect with others. Some ships even include dedicated lounges where solo travelers hang out and share tips.
Couples and Romance Seekers: Cruises can be extraordinarily romantic. River cruising on lines like AmaWaterways delivers scenic backdrops, elegant meals, and restful days along iconic rivers in Europe. Small ship cruises with Seabourn or Windstar provide intimate settings, fine dining, and hidden coves that larger ships cannot reach. Even on larger ships, specialty dining and adults-only spaces make for memorable date nights.
Families and Multi-Generational Groups: Cruises are ideal family vacations because they offer something for every age group. Big ships from Disney Cruise Line, Royal Caribbean, Carnival Cruise Line, and Norwegian Cruise Line include kids clubs, water parks, theme nights, and shows that appeal to both kids and adults. Parents and grandparents can enjoy separate spaces, excursions, and relaxation while everyone is still together in a shared adventure.
Adventure Lovers: For thrill seekers, look at expeditions or action-oriented itineraries. Expedition lines like Hurtigruten, Lindblad, and Quark take you deep into wildlife-rich destinations. Mainstream lines also offer adrenaline excursions like zip lining in Costa Rica, dogsledding on glaciers in Alaska, or hiking rainforest trails in the Caribbean.
Luxury and Relaxation Seekers: If your idea of travel is fine dining, flawless service, and serene spaces, luxury cruise lines deliver. Regent Seven Seas Cruises, Silversea Cruises, Seabourn, and Ponant provide small ship environments, gourmet cuisine, and personalized service often included in the fare. For a blend of luxury and large ship amenities, private enclave products such as MSC Yacht Club, Norwegian’s Haven, or Celebrity’s Retreat offer exclusive lounges, priority service, and upscale dining.
Wellness and Mindful Travelers: If you want a vacation that revitalizes your body and soul, many ships now offer wellness programs. You will find fitness classes, yoga sessions with ocean views, spa treatments, healthy dining options, and dedicated retreats on ships from lines such as Celebrity Cruises, Holland America, and even themed wellness sailings with select itineraries.
Give Cruising a Chance
We have covered a lot of ground and hopefully shown that cruising is not a one size fits all vacation. If you think cruising is not for you, the key is finding the right cruise that matches your preferences.
Here are a few tips for cruise skeptics:
Start small: If you are not ready for a long voyage, try a shorter cruise with 3- to 4- night sailings to see how you like it.
Do your research: Cruises vary widely. Talking with a travel expert who knows the cruise lines and ships can help you find the perfect match.
Keep an open mind: Sometimes a different way of seeing the world is exactly what you need. You may find that the self-described “boring” parts of a cruise become your favorite moments.
Cruising might not be for everyone, but it is for far more travelers than you might think. Unpack once, see multiple destinations, and enjoy the journey as much as the places you visit. If you choose the right ship and itinerary, you could find yourself saying “I never thought I’d like cruises, but now I can’t wait to book my next one.”
Skeptical about cruising? A Personal Travel Advisor can show you options tailored to your preferences. No crowds, no clichés, just a personalized travel experience. Let us help you explore cruise vacations that feel more like you.
